How To Be Sure

How 2B Sure and The Purple Bag Dating Game help couples improve communication and help couples explore if they can build a life-long relationship with their partner before marriage.

Is this the person I should marry?

While dating, have you ever asked yourself, “Is this the person I should marry?  Would we be happy?”  These are the exact questions Rick and I had while we were dating.  With the divorce rate hovering around 50% and both Rick and I having failed relationships in the past, why should we believe that this relationship would be different and bring us both lifelong happiness?  We have fun together and really love each other but we wondered if it would really be enough to withstand the highs and lows of life?  Could we build a happy and successful marriage?

Have you had the same questions about your relationship?  If so, then let me share how Rick and I answered these questions while improving our communication and increasing the intimacy in our relationship.

To answer our questions, I developed what is now known as The Purple Bag Dating Game.  The purpose of the game, from How 2B Sure, was to help us get to know each other better and build strong communication in our relationship.  We discussed a wide range of topics that can impact individuals and marriages in a fun and non-intimidating game.

Together as a couple, we identified areas where we are very compatible and areas where we might face struggles in our relationship.  We also discussed potential compromises before we were in the difficult situation. 

Our hope is that The Purple Bag Dating Game will help other couples build strong, life-long relationships by identifying their relationship compatibility while improving their communication.